Getting engaged is one of the most exciting things that could ever happen to you! There are so many new experiences to enjoy, and that's without even thinking about the wedding. There's the thrill of choosing a gorgeous ring, the warm wishes of friends and families, the engagement party, bridal showers and fun hen and buck's nights. In case you haven't already noticed, getting engaged is the all-time best excuse to party!

But let's start at the beginning...

Announcing the engagement
As soon as you're engaged, you'll no doubt want to share your fantastic news with everyone and anyone. As far as etiquette is concerned, be sure to inform your parents and immediate family first - they would be heartbroken if they had to hear the news from someone else. If there is a possibility that they will not be overjoyed about your decision, it's a good idea to break the news to them without your partner, as you don't want anything said in a heated moment that may be difficult for either side to forget in years to come.

Next it's time to tell your friends and acquaintances (your parents can usually be relied upon to pass the news on to their friends and distant relatives). You can spread the news by phone, letter, email or even a casual barbecue or party at which you can make the big announcement... surprise!

A novel idea is to send out copies of a video of the two of you in which you announce your engagement. You could even re-stage the proposal! This same video could also constitute your wedding invitation if you tell viewers when and where the wedding will be and that you'd love to see them there.

And for the true techno whizzes out there, consider emailing friends and family a link to your very own engagement and wedding website. Incorporate flash design complete with the story of the proposal, how you met, reactions of close family members, great photos and maybe even a video of the two of you.

For the more conventional among us, a good way to ensure your news spreads is to place an announcement in a local or national newspaper. Larger publications provide forms for you to complete as well as a selection of wording choices, while others expect you to provide the wording yourself. Just be sure to proofread your engagement announcement carefully. You may never live down a misspelt name, especially your future mother-in-law's!

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